Hi, I'm Wendy. I’m a mom, research junkie, neuroscience enthusiast, reiki practioner, wannabe yoga master, essential oil devotee, and a crystal lover. But most importantly, I enjoy my life.
I didn't start off wanting to become a sex coach. It was a job that found me. But now that I have become a sex educator and coach, I can't imagine doing anything else.
This isn't just a job, it is my calling. My ability to see multiple perspectives, listen to what is really being said, my empathetic nature, and my enthusiasm for life and all things sex related lend me to be a natural sex coach. My own struggles and life story help me to identify with the feelings and concerns of so many women.
Unfortunately, I was a victim of sexual abuse and I did not have a healthy foundation for sex. Like many other victims, I struggled with guilt. I felt guilty for wanting to have sex and guilty for finding any pleasure in it.
Additionally, I grew up in a conservative household where sex was not discussed except to say you shouldn't have sex before marriage. I also struggled with my weight for many years and always felt insecure about my body.
Together, my core beliefs about sex, being sensual, and receiving pleasure were askew. I felt broken, different, and alone.
I didn't feel like I was good enough to be loved.
Luckily, my life path took me on a journey of self-discovery and I'm proud to say that I thoroughly enjoy being a sensual woman. Through education, experimentation, and having a person that I could talk to about everything I was experiencing, I was able to break free of my own limiting beliefs.
My friends were the first to benefit from my discoveries. As they experienced success after success overcoming their own orgasm obstacles.
Now I help people experience amazing orgasms through education and coaching. I’m a certified life coach with certifications in NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), and I’m an Associate Life Coach through Empowerment Coach Academy.
By combining science, ancient wisdom, and proven techniques, I help empower women to change the negative thoughts running through their minds, enjoy sex, and embrace their sexuality. In other words, own their O.